After 10 years of studying Medical Qi Gong, I had adopted the Taoist world view. The flow of the river and the interconnectedness of all energy were engrained in my approach to life. The Tao Te Ching showed me how to stop pushing and allow life to unfold in its intended way. The Tao is the journey and twins have a very different path that society needs to try to understand. Friends and family have the right to know who we are.